July 24--St. Kinga (Cunegunda), Holy Woman

Grzegorz Czarnic, Public domain, via Wikimedia Commons

Can a woman both be married and a virgin and be dedicated to loving both husband and God? Yes! We have two excellent examples of that unique calling: Our Blessed Mother Mary and St. Kinga. St. Kinga’s story is one of devotion to God through her role as Queen of Poland. Born in Hungary in 1224 to the King of Hungary, St. Kinga had many saintly relatives. St. John Paul II, in his canonization homily said, when “she was to marry Prince Boleslaus, she convinced him to live a life of virginity for the glory of God, and after a waiting-period of two years the spouses made a vow of perpetual chastity….

“This way of life, perhaps difficult to understand nowadays, yet deeply rooted in the tradition of the early Church, gave Saint Kinga that inner freedom which enabled her to be concerned first of all with the things of the Lord and to lead a profound religious life. Today let us reconsider this great testimony. Saint Kinga teaches us that both marriage and virginity lived in union with Christ can become a path to holiness. Today Saint Kinga rises to safeguard these values. She reminds us that the value of marriage, this indissoluble union of love between two persons, cannot be brought into question under any circumstances. Whatever difficulties may arise, one may not abandon the defence of this primordial love which has united two persons and which is constantly blessed by God. Marriage is the way of holiness, even when it becomes the way of the Cross. …

“[S]he esteemed chastity and virginity, rightly seeing in this state an extraordinary gift whereby man experiences in a special way his own freedom.” We need both holy marriages to raise godly families and consecrated virgins dedicated completely to serving God.

February 4—St. Joan of Valois, Holy Woman

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Today's saint was, for a time, Queen of France.  However, as is the case with all saints, suffering beset her throughout her life.  Jeanne de Valois was born in 1464, the second daughter of King Louis XI of France.  She was afflicted with a physical handicap, possibly curvature of the spine, which allowed others to disparage her.  She was forced into marriage with her cousin Louis, who also treated her poorly.  Nonetheless,  when Louis was rebelling against her brother, King Charles VIII and was captured by him, Joan pleaded for his life and administered the duchy.  Eventually Duke Louis was released and became King Louis XII after the death of his brother-in-law.  One would think things would get better for Joan, but Louis wanted more territory and so appealed to the pope for an annulment from his marriage to her, citing lack of consent and her deformity as a cause for lack of consummation of the marriage.  St. Joan objected but the pope granted the annulment for political reasons.

St. Joan became the Duchess of Berry and formed a community dedicated to the Annunciation in 1500.  She and her spiritual director wrote the rule, and the community was established as a branch of the Poor Clares in 1504.  She renounced her title and possession and became a nun on Pentecost, 1504.  She died less than a year later.  The nuns still have monasteries in Europe and Costa Rica and religious sisters serve in Europe, Africa, and Guatemala.

St. Joan's treatment was unjust!  She did step aside and prayed for her husband.  St. Joan accepted her annulment ordeal in the spirit of the Annunciation, saying:  "Be it done to me and her own if so it is to be."  May we be as forgiving when mistreated!  St. Joan, pray for us.

*By Jean Perréal - http://www.anuncjatki.pl/assets/images/mniszki/jeanne.jpg, Public Domain, https://commons.wikimedia.org/w/index.php?curid=16021386